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I had my first cigarette at the age of 16. I was curious. My friend and I were at a girl friend’s house and we smoked what we could off a butt on the ground- gross, I know! But it didn’t take much for me to start up the habit that I held dear to me for 10 years. I loved cigarettes- and honestly, I would smoke one right one if it wasn’t for my pride of throwing everything out the door and what I worked hard for the last 1 1/2 years! All you non-smokers out there, when you are telling your loved one they need to quit, you also need to take into consideration the DIFFICUTLY of this task! It’s like us asking you to quit exercising, drinking wine, or stop being friends with someone- seriously! Its NOT easy and even though we know it isn’t good for us, we still continue to do it. Now anyone who is thinking right now “This girl is crazy and insensitive to write this about smoking or compare quitting to exercising or drinking wine!”, please don’t jump to the conclusion I’m supporting cigarettes or lung cancer- just read the entire post- then feel free to comment if you would like. I encourage comments- ALL of them 🙂 No one is perfect and I think everyone indulges in something that isn’t good for you, whether it’s junk food or gossiping, you know it isn’t healthy for you but you do it anyway.
I decided to write this post not to talk about the struggle of quitting but to talk about the upside of quitting! So here we go:
- I was getting ready for my 8th knee surgery in October 2012. My new surgeon told me I HAD to quit because this surgery would not be successful if I continued to smoke. That was it right there- I had to quit! I hadn’t been able to exercise in years because of my knees and I didn’t want to risk it!
- My boyfriend smoked too and when I told him what the doctor said, he told me he wanted to quit as well and right before his 28th birthday we both quit. If it hadn’t been for him quitting too, I don’t think I would have been successful at kicking the habit! He is way stronger than me and I give him all the thanks in the world for quitting with me!
- We didn’t substitute cigarettes for anything! We went cold turkey! It was hard… actually, it sucked but we knew it was the only way to do it! We were moody and always on edge but after about 2 weeks, it got easier. We were able to break our habits we developed from smoking like the morning cigarette, driving cigarette, drinking cigarette, stressful cigarette…
- Once I quit I gained 20 lbs in 3 months (I know this isn’t encouraging to others, especially the ladies, but hear me out). I felt like I was being punished for becoming healthy! This made me more motivated to exercise– which I was able to do BECAUSE of my successful surgery! I had this fire ignited in me and I was going to take advantage of it for as long as I could!
- I have never felt better in my life! I can hike up hills and run long distances without getting winded. My body has never felt stronger and I want to keep it healthy! I’ve also managed to exercise when I’m stressed, rather than go for a cigarette. Its amazing how much more effective it is to go for a run than smoke!
- I don’t get sick as often. I used to get a cold a few times per month and the flu at least once a year. I can honestly say I did not get sick last year (or at least that sick that I can document when it occurred). I don’t have a constant cough anymore that smokers tend to get.
- I don’t get antsy when hanging out with friends. When I used to go out, I would always be thinking when I could sneak outside and smoke a cigarette, and it was more awkward when no one smoked. Now I can stay in all night and not worry about getting my fix!
- My wallet is deeper! We used to spend $7/ day on cigarettes. I would smoke 1/2 – 1 pack/day (depending on the occasion). Now we have an extra $2,555 per year!
- We were ready. We tried to quit before but it was unsuccessful because we weren’t truly ready! No one can make you quit- you have to WANT to quit or it will not be successful!
Again, quitting is hard and by no means should it be taken lightly! In America alone, smoking is responsible for nearly 1 in 5 deaths, and about 8.6 million people suffer from smoking-related lung and heart diseases. Quitting smoking lowers the risk of lung cancer, other cancers, heart attack, stroke, and chronic lung disease. For information and tips on quitting smoking go to www.cancer.org. And for anyone who wants their loved ones to quit, be supportive! Don’t discriminate or punish them for smoking. Cutting out articles of how to quit smoking and posting them on the refrigerator or on a co-workers desk is hardly affective- and in most cases, its offensive. Just be there for them and when they do decide to quit and are going through a hard time, be understanding and encouraging, because we are all in it together! Now, if the smoker is just stubborn, selfish, and doesn’t care who they seem to hurt… that’s just another story!
Ok, now its your turn- have at it with the comments….
Congrats, keep it up!!!
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Congratulations. I’ve never smoked but I’ve seen the impact on those closest to me. Stay strong.
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Good for you! I quit in 2009. I think I started at age 14 so it was 30+ years for me. And yes, I would pick one up right now if I listened to that little devil on my left shoulder 🙂 And you are absolutely correct…you have to want to quit before you try. For me, it was the $. The price was hiked at the beginning of March of that year. I went to buy my carton and could not believe the price. So I told myself there in the line at the store, that this was the last carton. I planned it out so that the last cigarette of that last pack would be smoked before I went to bed on a Friday night. Then starting Saturday morning, I hunkered down on the couch and rode it out for the weekend. I never looked back. Hubby had quit back in 2004 and never really harped on me, but he is still so proud because he knows how hard it was for me to quit and I can say now that come mid March of this year, I am 5 years free! Stay strong 🙂
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Congrats!!! 🙂
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Yea for you for quitting! Agree 100% that it may be one of the hardest things to do. I quit a two-pack a day habit more than 20 years ago. I was an avid racquetball player at that time, and was getting my butt kicked on the court because my endurance was so awful. Had tried numerous time to quit, but was always discouraged by the weight gain. Quit for good after losing an Election-Day bet.
Quitting is the best thing you can do for yourself. I’m especially glad that I don’t smoke anymore because it’s so socially unacceptable. Kills me to think that I used to smoke a pack a day sitting at my desk, and all my nonsmoking coworkers had to suffer along. Glad we are all smarter about things like that now.
Don’t ever go back!
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I agree with you. It is difficult to quit doing anything. I could never go without chocolate, so I truly understand your situation, even though I never smoked. I am proud of you for 1) writing about your struggle and 2) for actually quitting, staying strong and getting healthier. Good luck!
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Well done you!!!
Best decision you’ll make, for sure. I quit in 1990 and have never looked back 🙂
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To share my experience… I started smoking quite young and even after I stopped being a hard-core smoker I still enjoyed one or two in the evening, then socially for a few years. For me, it was a gradual cutting down rather than cold turkey (my husband was the opposite, he had to quit completely). At this point I haven’t smoked in years and I have absolutely no desire to. So for me, the craving is totally gone.
I’m glad that my kids are growing up in a world where it is far less socially acceptable, and the places where you can smoke are limited. I grew up in the 70’s and 80’s and smoking was a much bigger part of people’s lives.
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That’s hard to just smoke socially! I know people who do that ad it surprises me how they don’t get addicted! Good job on keeping up smoke-free!
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I just quit on January 10th this year, so I’ve only got 5 or 6 weeks under my belt, but I did it! I had already decided to quit, and slowly weaned myself off with the last 3 packs in my carton. Less than a week later I ended up being rushed to the hospital by ambulance, and was in for 11 days, where of course I couldn’t smoke anyway. Being so sick I couldn’t have gone outside for a smoke even if I’d wanted to (and it was -18 outside on some days) I agree though, that I’d have one right now if there was a pack of menthols here. I still have lots of triggers that make me crave one, but it doesn’t last for very long. I just couldn’t afford it any more, and had developed bronchitis. The doctor put me on an inhaler twice a day. Enough was enough.
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Sorry you got so sick! Unfortunately, sometimes it takes a wake up call for you to quit. Congrats on being 6 weeks smoke free!!
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I quit twice, both times cold turkey. One hiatus lasted for ten years before, in a stressful situation, I started smoking again. It took me nineteen years to decide to quit once more. That was twenty-three years ago, and I know I’ll be cigarette-free for the rest of my life. I urge people to quite any way they can.
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I am so proud of you and Kevin for quitting!! I know exactly how difficult it was for you to quit because years ago I had to make the same decision and it was not easy!! Nagging your loved ones to quit is never successful and yes, posting things on a frig or desk IS offensive and gets you nowhere. I started at 12 and quickly moved to 2 packs a day…I lite my one off the other and pretty much stopped eating. It was getting pregnant that stopped me in my tracks. So I know how hard it is to quit and I am so proud of you both for gutting it out and making the hard choice to quit. Love you sweetheart ❤ Mama
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Thanks for sharing your quitting story Mama! I’m proud of you too!! Love you!
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Thanks for the great post! I think it is terrific encouragement for teenagers to never start. Being a traveler, I always feel sorry for the people who get off a plane and dash to the nearest smoking zone. Especially after overseas flights. Glad you quit!
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Congrats! Quitting smoking is really, really tough. My dad was a smoker and an alcoholic, and he said quitting the cigarettes was way, way harder than quitting drinking, which really says something. You’re already enjoying the rewards of being smoke free, which I’m sure will help keep you there! 🙂
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Congrats! I can relate to exactly everything that you are saying! 190 days as a non-smoker. It’s hard to quit a 17 year old habit that you invested a lot of time and effort perfecting.
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Thanks, girly , i needed that this morning . after 15 years of smoking on and off, i decided i would quit this year, the day after my birthday. That was 2 days ago. ugh. Words of encouragement greatly appreciated! You forgot to mention no longer spitting loogies everywhere and having them come up at the worst times…
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Oh wow! 2 days!!!??? Congrats on quitting! Stay strong and celebrate the mile stones! 🙂
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It’s great to hear your personal experience after the fact. Your honesty is perfect: “It sucks, but I’m so glad I did it.” That is inspiring.
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That is awesome! I don’t smoke, though I did test it very very briefly. There are relatives who suffer greatly from health issues caused directly by smoking, and seeing your inspiring blog post helps me see it is possible. Congratulations to both you and your boyfriend. ^_^ Thanks for sharing what is possible.
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I have smoked off and on since I was twenty-two. Right now I don’t smoke cigarettes, but if offered a toke of pot. Yep. I just don’t buy it. Can certainly live without it.
But… I do dip Copenhagen. Probably worse than cigs health-wise. Perhaps I will quit that as well.
Excellent post and congrats to you.
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Awesome work. I didn’t quit smoking but quit chewing tobacco over 2 years ago. I hear what you are saying and agree on all fronts. I really enjoyed it, but the tipping point for me was having my first kid. I wanted to be around longer for my kids and didn’t want to show them any bad habits.
Now that I have quit I am feeling so good and know I will never go back to it. Exercise, kids and my new business has filled the void. Everything feels better. Thanks for putting together the post and the inspiration that comes with it.
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